Childhood trauma can leave deep marks that sometimes seem to fade with time. Many adults believe they have moved past difficult early experiences, only to find that intense emotional distress suddenly reappears after a major life event. This resurfacing can feel confusing and overwhelming, especially when there is no formal diagnosis or clear explanation. Hidden symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), often buried under years of emotional neglect, may be the cause.

On two occasions, I have seen the symptoms of terrible PTSD (with a dissociative disorder!) all but disappear with marriage therapy and basic alterations in self-care . Have I got your attention? Couples facing emotional challenges often find traditional therapy helpful but sometimes insufficient. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy, known for addressing trauma, can be a powerful tool when combined with marriage therapy approaches. One such approach,

Marriage therapy can be a lifeline for couples facing challenges, but not all therapists deliver the same results. One key factor that influences success is whether the therapist has formal training in marriage counseling. This post explores how trained marriage therapists compare to untrained therapists in terms of success rates, what makes trained professionals more effective, and what couples should consider when seeking help. Why Therapist Training Matters in Marriage The

Marriage therapy carries a reputation for being slow, repetitive, and unproductive. Like paying your mother-in-law to referee an argument. Many couples leave feeling frustrated or stuck. Unfortunately, these stereotypes have a basis in reality. The Gottman Method offers a fresh alternative attractive that both women and men find refreshing. It transforms traditional therapy by focusing on energetic, skills- and assignment-based sessions that engage couples actively and bui

I have decided to start doing pure marriage therapy again, on a limited basis . I normally do not work Fridays, but am adding a half-day (mornings) for marriage therapy. I often use brief marriage therapy as a preparation for working with childhood trauma. However, this time will be for pure marriage therapy. I use Gottman Method, which I am formally trained in by the Gottman Institute . Insurance doesn't pay for marriage work (any therapist who says otherwise is cheating