Fake security vs freedom: Mental illness should not be "cool." Labels should not be identities. A label is not going to give your life meaning. A diagnosis is not going to bring you peace. Especially if it is simply not true, but also if you check off the right boxes. You will not find meaning in accepting a diagnosis as a label, as an identity. And joining social group that thinks the same way is definitely going to make things even worse. You will feel a false comfort in b